Why does love fade, she asks? Well I don’t really think love fades, I think we as people fade and with that goes the feelings we had for others. Love is love, it’s the same feeling, love doesn’t hurt you, people hurt you, that’s the difference. You see like everything else in life, we get used to something, it does not seem exciting to us anymore, and there lies the problem. Our love for someone fades because love needs constant feeding, constant boosting, livening up from time to time. We get in such a routine in our lives and we just let things go by, but unless we do something to change that routine our love for people will fade.
To prevent love from fading, we have to be less serious, we need to laugh more, joke more, cuddle more, kiss more, talkmore all of which cost nothing. People need to understand that through the stages of their relationship, the love is going to change. It’s going to be a little less, a little more, but it will never be consistently one level. Every once in a while love needs a boost, it doesn’t need to cost loads of money, being together is what is important and if people only took the time to do this a little more often, then their lives would not become a fading love. We need to take the time to rekindle ourselves and our love, for then it will not fade but only become stronger. <3